It just isn’t a good fit. You’ve tried to lose the weight of the feelings, but instead you go to the all-you-can-eat ice cream bar in the cafeteria. The first step is to admit the problem. This school just isn’t for you. (If the ice cream thing rings true, maybe stepping away from the rocky road could be a good idea too). Start by making a quick list of what isn’t right for you, or what you wish college could be. Find a school that has those qualities and go there. Swallow your pride like the ice cream.